Philippians: The Gospel-Shaped Church “Examples to Us” (2:19-30)

Date: 09/20/2026

Duration: 36:34

Speaker: Josh Lilly

Series: Philippians

Topics: Christian Living, Discipleship, Faithfulness, Humility, Ministry, and Providence

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Philippians 2:19-30

Note: These questions have been prepared to follow the pattern of the series, based on the sermon content from Pastor Dr. Josh Lilly.

Examples to Us

Trust, Serve, and Honor

Sermon by Pastor Dr. Josh Lilly · Text: Philippians 2:19–30 · Weekly Devotional Questions

I hope in the Lord Jesus to send Timothy to you soon… For I have no one like him who will be genuinely concerned for your welfare… I thought it necessary to send to you Epaphroditus, my brother and fellow worker and fellow soldier and your messenger and minister to my need… So receive him in the Lord with all joy and honor such men, for he nearly died for the work of Christ, risking his life to complete what was lacking in your service to me.

— Philippians 2:19–20, 25, 29–30 (ESV)

Day 1 — Not a Digression: The Mind of Christ in Real People

Read: Philippians 1:27; 2:1–11; 2:19–30

1. At first glance Paul seems to leave the Christ hymn for travel plans. After last week’s call to work out salvation without grumbling, why must examples come next?
2. The sermon said these two paragraphs continue the same conversation: live worthy of the gospel; shine as lights. Where are you tempted to treat doctrine as finished once the “big text” is over?
3. Paul, Timothy, and Epaphroditus are all waiting. What unresolved circumstance in your life most tempts you to think God has paused the lesson?
4. Having the mind of Christ, the sermon said, means trusting providence while circumstances stay unresolved, letting devotion shape how we care for people, and readily honoring faithful servants. Which of those three is thinnest in you right now?
5. Jesus took the form of a servant. Where this week would looking at Timothy or Epaphroditus actually change a decision you were going to make on instinct?

PRAYER

Father, thank You for the Son who humbled himself and for living examples who make His mind visible. Forgive us for treating travel plans as a pause in the sermon. Make the lives of Timothy and Epaphroditus land in our kitchens, workplaces, and church. Align our waiting and our service with the Christ we confessed.

Day 2 — Trust God’s Providence While You Wait

Read: Philippians 2:19–24; Acts 16:6–10; Acts 28:30–31

1. Paul hopes “in the Lord Jesus” to send Timothy and trusts “in the Lord” that he himself will come. What changes when your plans sit under that same lordship?
2. The last word of Acts 28 is unhindered—while Paul is still in prison. Where have you let locked doors convince you the gospel has been hindered in your life?
3. The sermon warned against sliding from active waiting into passive waiting, “sitting on your thumbs.” What would active waiting look like in the circumstance that has not moved?
4. Paul remembered the Macedonian call: they planned Asia, and God planted Philippi. What good work in your story arrived by a road you did not choose?
5. Compass Church waited eight years for a building; Fellowship Bible’s last move was a kingdom move. What resource, relationship, or disappointment might God still mean to spend on someone else?

PRAYER

Lord, You govern what we cannot control. Keep us from treating delay as absence. Give us a kingdom mindset while the verdict is still out. When the cloud does not move, teach us to stay; when You say go, teach us to go. We trust Your providence today.

Day 3 — Bloom Where You Are Planted

Read: Philippians 2:19–23; Acts 16:1–5; 1 Timothy 4:12; Colossians 3:23–24

1. Timothy remains faithful to his present assignment while available for the next one. Where are you mentally living in “what’s next” instead of serving what’s now?
2. The preacher’s grandfather used to say, “Bloom where you are planted.” What would blooming look like in a place you did not choose—a job, a house, a season, even a kind of waiting that feels like prison?
3. The Philippians already knew Timothy’s proven worth. Character, the notes said, is demonstrated through testing. What test right now is forming a record others will one day be able to trust?
4. Paul describes Timothy as a son serving with his father in the gospel. Who has been a Paul to you? Who is a Timothy you should not leave behind?
5. We often struggle to be faithful where God has us when we want to be somewhere else. What older version of that restlessness is still writing your wants?

PRAYER

Father, You assign the day as well as the decade. Forgive the restlessness that treats today as a hallway. Make us faithful on the present road, ready for the next word, and glad to serve with those You have given us. Teach us to bloom.

Day 4 — Eight Hundred Miles and an Unexpected Outcome

Read: Philippians 2:25–28; 4:14–18; Matthew 26:37–38

1. Epaphroditus traveled some 800 miles one way, carrying a gift on roads known for robbers. What costly obedience have you delayed because the road looked long?
2. He was sent to help Paul and became the one who needed care. When has service unfolded differently than you hoped—and what did you assume that said about you?
3. Paul honors faithfulness, not a measurable harvest. Where are you still scoring your life by fruit you cannot control?
4. Epaphroditus longed for the church and was distressed that they had heard he was ill. The sick man cared about the people worried about him. Whose burden are you still making about yourself?
5. God had mercy on him—and on Paul, “lest I should have sorrow upon sorrow.” How does that sentence give you room to grieve without treating grief as spiritual failure?

PRAYER

Lord Jesus, You see the road and the fever. We confess how quickly we call a mission a failure when it does not go as planned. Honor faithfulness we cannot measure. Have mercy on the ill, the delayed, and those who wait for news. We receive even this as from Your hand.

Day 5 — Genuine Concern for the Welfare of Others

Read: Philippians 2:3–4, 20–22; 1:15–17; Romans 12:1–2

1. Paul has “no one like” Timothy—isopsychos, a shared mind. Whose welfare do you actually carry, and whose name do you only mention?
2. “They all seek their own interests, not those of Jesus Christ.” The sermon was plain: it is possible to remain in ministry while being preoccupied with ourselves. Where is that sentence uncomfortably close?
3. Timothy’s concern for the Philippians was concern for Christ’s interests. How does loving Jesus’ people reveal whether you love Jesus?
4. The sermon distinguished condemnation from conviction. What selfishness would you ask Him to expose before Sunday?
5. What does the pattern of your service reveal about your concern for others? Answer without defending the exceptions.

PRAYER

Holy Spirit, form the mind of Christ in us. Thank You for any genuine concern that is already from You. Root out the self-interest that still dresses itself as ministry. Make us more self-forgetful, and more sincerely bound to one another.

Day 6 — Sacrificial Love When the Plan Changes

Read: Philippians 2:25–30; Isaiah 6:8; Mark 10:45

1. Paul names Epaphroditus brother, fellow worker, fellow soldier, messenger, and minister. Which of those five names do you most want, and which would cost you something this week?
2. “Here am I. Send me.” The sermon asked whether he was chosen or volunteered. What would it cost you to say that without first negotiating the assignment?
3. Serving Jesus does not mean everything will always go well. Where has the fear of loss kept you from a yes you already knew was His?
4. We cannot control every outcome. We can remain faithful when serving unfolds differently than we hoped. What unfinished, unimpressive obedience still belongs on the altar?
5. Christ’s death saves; their sacrifice does not. Why must we keep that line clear even as we imitate their humility?

PRAYER

Lord Jesus, You came not to be served but to serve, and to give Your life as a ransom for many. We will never add to that work. Make us willing to lose comfort for Your people, and keep us from treating avoidable exhaustion as a measure of holiness. Shape our sacrifice by Your cross.

Day 7 — Receive Him with Joy: Honor Faithful Servants

Read: Philippians 2:28–30; 1 Corinthians 16:17–18; Romans 13:7

1. It is easy to be a beneficiary of someone else’s service without noticing it. Before you arrived to receive this Sunday, who had already been preparing to serve?
2. Paul commands the church to welcome Epaphroditus with joy and to honor people like him—because he risked his life for the work of Christ. Whose quiet risk has helped you follow Jesus?
3. The sermon named a culture: thank them specifically, speak well of their faithfulness, care for their needs. Which of those three will you practice by name this week?
4. “The best discipleship tool in a local church is membership.” How would taking that sentence seriously change the way you show up among this body?
5. If you do not yet belong to Christ, the secret of life is not self. What is keeping you from coming to Him today and asking Him to give you a new heart?

PRAYER

Father, open our eyes to the servants we have received without thanks. Make our church quick to honor, slow to critique an early return, and rich in specific gratitude. If any among us have not yet trusted Your Son, write their names in the book of life—for that is Your good pleasure.

Family or Group Discussion

1. Which part of the sermon or this week’s readings most challenged or encouraged you, and why?
2. Where is our family or group most tempted to sit down in unresolved circumstances—or to withhold honor from someone whose assignment did not go as planned?
3. How do we help one another practice genuine concern without turning service into a way of seeking our own interests?
4. Take time to pray for one another: for trust in delay, hidden faithfulness, sincere care, joyful honor, and for anyone who still needs to come to Christ.

Weekly Practice

• Having the mind of Christ means we trust God’s providence, let devotion shape our care, and honor those who serve.
• Each morning, before you pick up the day’s list, entrust one unresolved circumstance to the Lord and ask what faithfulness looks like today.
• Bloom where you are planted. Do the present assignment all the way to the edge—then hold yourself available for the next word.
• Do one hidden act of costly care no one will applaud: a message, a meal, a ride, an 800-mile kind of yes in miniature.
• When self-interest rises in ministry, stop and ask: “Does the pattern of my service reveal concern for their welfare, or for mine?”
• Refuse to score this week by visible fruit. Name one place you will measure faithfulness instead.
• Thank one servant specifically. Speak well of their faithfulness to someone else. Notice whether they need rest, help, or a hand held.
• Write and finish the sentence: “Having the mind of Christ this week would change __________ in me.” Then take one step. If you do not know Christ, take the first step: come and tell a pastor or elder.

THIS WEEK’S CHARGE

A church that lives this way does not invent energy it does not have. God works in us to will and to work. Therefore we trust His providence while the circumstance is still unresolved, we let devotion to Christ shape how we care for people, and we receive faithful servants with joy—together—for the good pleasure of God and the glory of Christ.

These questions are prepared to serve personal, family, and small-group study of the Word as we continue the Philippians series. May the God who works in you both to will and to work form in us a steady trust in delay, a sincere concern for His people, a costly faithfulness when plans change, and a joyful honor for those who serve—for the glory of Christ and the strengthening of His church at Crossroads.